Writing an obituary is a deeply personal and significant task that honors the memory of a loved one. It’s a way to celebrate their life, share their story, and inform the community of their passing. While it can be challenging, creating a heartfelt obituary can be a comforting part of the grieving process. Here’s a guide to help you navigate this meaningful endeavor.
Who Should Write the Obituary?
Deciding who should write the obituary often depends on who feels most comfortable and capable of capturing the deceased’s essence. Typically, this responsibility falls to a close family member or friend who profoundly understands the person’s life and legacy. Sometimes, families may collaborate with different people who contribute their memories and perspectives.
Sometimes, the task may be handed to a professional writer or a funeral home offering obituary writing services. This can be particularly helpful if the family feels overwhelmed or unsure how to begin. Regardless of who writes it, the goal is to create a piece that honors the person’s life and shares their story with love and respect.
Important Information to Include in an Obituary
An obituary serves multiple purposes: it announces the passing, details the deceased’s life, and informs the community about any memorial services. Here are crucial elements to include:
1. Full Name and Dates: Include the deceased’s full name, date of birth, and date of death.
2. Biographical Information: Share significant life details, such as where they were born, key milestones, education, career, and accomplishments. Highlight what made them unique and special.
3. Family Details: List surviving family members, including spouses, children, grandchildren, and siblings. It’s also customary to mention predeceased family members.
4. Personal Anecdotes and Achievements: Include personal stories, hobbies, passions, and achievements that defined their character and life. This is what makes the obituary genuinely heartfelt and personal.
5. Service Information: Provide details about any planned memorial services, including date, time, and location. Include information on where to send flowers or donations if applicable.
6. Photos: Adding a recent photo and, if available, a favorite photo from the past can provide a visual remembrance of the deceased.
How Fitchett Mann Can Help
At Fitchett Mann, we understand the emotional weight of writing an obituary. We are here to support you through every step of the process. Our team can assist in crafting a heartfelt and respectful tribute that reflects your loved one’s life and legacy.
Our Services Include:
Consultation: We offer one-on-one consultations to gather the necessary information and ensure all important details are included.
Writing Assistance: Our experienced staff can help write the obituary or review and edit what you’ve written to ensure it’s clear, comprehensive, and error-free.
Online Posting: We post obituaries on our website, providing a place for friends and family to read about and remember your loved one. This also allows for easy sharing on social media and with distant relatives.
Creating an obituary is important to honor and remember your loved one. At Fitchett Mann, we are dedicated to helping you create a tribute that will be cherished for years to come. Contact us today to learn more about our services and how we can assist you during this difficult time.
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